In a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falls upon men, while slumbering on their beds, then he opens the ears of men, and seals their instruction. Job 33, 15-16 NKJV
Stop surviving and start living. We are creators. We are creators of our reality, no matter what the current reality, you created it. Stop the feelings of victimization and know that you are in control of everything. No one can control your thoughts; every thought is your choice. Einstein said that the human imagination is far greater than reality. Imagination is merely seeing the end as a reality. Feel the end, is the key to the law of attraction. Jesus said to know the beginning is to know the end. What he was trying to tell us is if we can feel and see the end, if we can experience the outcome now, it would be so. Know the outcome before the start and you will know the end. Stop desiring things that will bring you a feeling and start having the feeling to bring you the thing. If you need shoes, imagine how the shoes feel and smell, when they are new of course, please do not imagine old smelly shoes. But feel the new shoes in your hand, imagine placing them on your feet. My point is simple. If you need money to buy shoes, do not imagine the money, imagine the shoes and let the laws of the universe figure out how to get you the shoes. Make the visualization so real that they are no mistake and you end up with boots. Be clear in what you need and let it go, believe it as done and it is. The very minute you let things go, the minute you know what you have manifested, you no longer need it, you have it and that is the biblical faith that moves mountains working in your life.
Stop blocking your dreams with reality. Abraham Hicks describes reality focused minds as people focusing only on what they can see on the radar screen of life. If they cannot see the money to pay that credit card off on the radar screen, they feel hopeless and lost, destitute. Not realizing that the radar screen they are looking at is 4 inches in diameter and the solution, the idea that will bring them what they desire is on every radar screen that is ten foot wide. It is out there, but we do not allow it to come in, because of what Zig Ziglar called stinking thinking. We stop the manifestation by not believing in it, by doubting it because we cannot see it on our incredibly small radar screen of reality. Think bigger, be bigger, look less, believe more. What ever it is, it is there, just outside your view. Let it come to you, do not waste effort trying to relocate yourself to it, it will come. Believe it and you can achieve it.