Change what you do, to change how you feel. I am talking about routine. Try to change every at first. If you get up on the right side of the bed, switch to the left. This seems silly, but every time you get up on the left side of the bed you will be reminded that you intend to change. Intentionally is a key to success. Sometimes that old subconscious mind will try to operate its habits without your participation. This is how you interrupt that habit cycle. From the left side of the bed, immediately thank the creator for another opportunity, another day, and another experience.
Meditate/pray. God can be heard in that sleepy state that occurs right as you wake up or fall asleep. It is the point that your conscious mind is not quite awake yet and you are alone with your habit mind, your subconscious mind. If you want to tell your subconscious mind to stop overreacting in traffic, like you have trained it to do, now is the time, this is the moment. Get very quiet and listen. Just feel what your body has to say. Focus on various parts of your body and feel the free space all around each of them. Consider a guided meditation at first if you have trouble keeping your consciousness asleep. If you can focus inwardly in peace for 15 minutes each morning to start, things will start to change for you. You will become more aware and intentional throughout your day. If you have ever heard a parent say to a child, “get a hold of yourself”, this is what you are doing. You are regaining control of your day, week, month, year and life. This is accomplished by being 100 percent present in every moment.
The language of the creator. Although I believe the creator could be audible to all if desired, God does not operate this way. God is personal. God speaks through feeling and intuition. I have gone on and on about quantum wave theory (QWT) and why I believe God is all things, but my understanding may be rooted in QWT, it feels known. The bible says when the three become one, I have a second of this writing dedicated to that, but for this part, it is enough to say, when the heart, mind and spirit are in coherence. When your feelings (heart), mind (brain) and spirit (essence) are centered on the same thing, you are extremely powerful. Meditation or prayer can be a wonderful tool for this alignment. It is helpful to see your body as spirit. Sense you are a collection of energy waves held together by an unseen force; you are more spirit/energy than anything physical from a scientific viewpoint. Changing the start is the largest step in your change process.
Once you begin a change in your reality, it is a good time to start feeling, notice I did not say think. Thinking got us into this mess. Feel what you are here to do. Use Edison’s model for the light bulb if you must but start looking for it. Do not stress about it, just relax and look. Once you heart, mind and spirit are in alignment and are all looking for the same thing, it will be discovered rather quickly for most. Some of us block the answer, because we do not believe the answer. We have not gone far enough to change are perception of things. We focus on title, versus mission, the opinion of others versus our inner knowing. Be free of other’s opinions. You can just say to yourself, I love all things, but honor my own direction and purpose handed to me by the creator more. Or just say to yourself, I am going to do me and when the best me is realized, my friends and family will accept or not accept, that is their choice, but I must be me.
Change is hard. Change is hard because we want others support for change. Yes, it would be nice to have a life partner’s support, but you are not here to subject yourself to others, you are here to be you. We get hung up on historical/biblical records, such as the greatest among your become servants. These references are saying that servant leadership is best, they are not talking about your connection to this universe. Serve others by being the best you, not by being what they want you to be, is my best advice. Ultimately, change for you, not for others and others will be blessed to have an intentional being in their life.