Forget yesterday and forget tomorrow. Do not obsess or even remotely consider what has happened or what will, for you have no power there. This is not to say, you don’t need to rehearse a speech or study for a test, I am merely stating that worry and doubt lie in the past and future. They cannot exist in the present moment without your help. You say you want this or that and life has frustrated you by not allowing you to get them. If its money, or a car or a vacation, what is the feeling you hope to have when you have these things? Have that feeling now. If you are saying, if I just force myself to have the feeling without it, will I not want it anymore…? Exactly. You will have it, in the form of belief, and the law of attraction says you will have it physically soon. However, frustration or focus on not having it is lack, and that will bring you the opposite.
Be whom you want to be right now. If you have a job you hate for whatever reason, focus a little time each day on what is good about it and those good things will be maximized in your mind. Be grateful for the good and better will come. You must stop wanting things from a position of lack, looking at life through a lens of lack. I am in the middle of such a case study, called my life. When you grow up with little, you might have a harder time feeling what you want through a lens other than lack, since you might struggle with what the feeling opposite lack actually is or get easily sidetracked by the pity me bug, that voice that keeps telling you, “you are not enough”. This voice is stupid and anytime you hear it, laugh at it and say stop in a demanding tone. I know it sounds like your voice, but it is not. Your true voice is saying, in a much lower tone, it is done. If you have only experienced lack in life, you can do this, you can rise above, you can be what you need to be, you can move this mountain. Repeat after me, it is done, and feel it. Do this whenever you feel weak. It is done unto me as I feel, so feel good.